Red

Q- what do you do when someone consistently hurts you but you keep going back for more?

The theory of the addiction quest

The hole is there, that we cannot deny, however must we be consumed by the need to fill the hole? I think that the hole was put there by Him so that we never feel complete without HIM. If this is my answer then why do i consistently fill the hole with everything BUT God?

I theorise that human beings have the "touch it feel it syndrome," ie. its easier to access/process that which you can touch and feel therefore you grab that which you know/feel first.
I guess we keep going back because when we do connect as human beings its so powerful that for that moment we know what its like to have the hole plugged.

This makes sense if you realise that human beings as a part of God, have the capability [power] to give each other this sense of completeness, but it is only temporary. The moment is fleeting at best and after we have experienced it, we then keep trying to get it back.

Why then did God give man the ability to pug the hole at all? I think that he did this because he recognised people's inability to be sustained by faith, but made it fleeting so as to ensure that human contact does not ever replace God contact.
The moment was also created so that we can recognise it when it comes in a spiritual form